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I’ve always been driven to improve. When I want to develop a specific skill, I’d like to know whether I’m getting better at it.

Some skills are just difficult to measure. The skills of both mindfulness and leadership fall into this category.

I’ve gathered, developed, and refined these measures throughout my entire professional career, to help both myself and my clients develop as mindful leaders.

I’ve currently defined 12 core measures of mindful leadership with a handful of other measures that I’m experimenting. This article is an attempt to capture my current thinking in this area.

You can download a checklist that I created to help you develop your leadership skills. It outlines a specific action that you can take to improve each of the 12 measures. You can download a copy here:

1) Widen The Gap

“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is the power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” – Victor E. Frankl

The first measure of mindful leadership is awareness. Awareness is your ability to observe the various patterns of your thoughts, behaviour and emotions, without getting swept away.

Awareness is the single most important skill of mindful leadership, and without it, you will not be able to notice the other measures.

The opposite of awareness is autopilot. It turns out that around 95% of our behaviour is automatic. This means that for the majority of our day we are swept away by our thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. It’s no wonder that we find ourselves addicted to email, social media and Netflix.

The best way to develop the skill of awareness is to have a mindfulness practice. This practice should include each of the following; meditation, journalling, exercise, sleep, and eating. Wearing a robe, burning incense, and joining a cult, are all optional.

Within a short period, you will start to notice the benefits of your mindfulness practice. This includes a reduction in stress and anxiety, an increase in mental acuity, and when combined with the other measures, an increase in your awareness and influence.

2) Choose Your Focus

“Starve your distractions, feed your focus.” – Daniel Goleman

The second measure of mindful leadership is focus. Focus is your ability to maintain your attention on a single project or goal until completion.

The opposite of focus is distracted. Distractions are everywhere (squirrel), keeping us from achieving greatness. Do I check Facebook or work on my passion project? Do I study or watch Netflix? Do I eat fruit or the bag of chips? All of these choices, and more are preventing you from becoming a mindful leader.

Developing your focus starts with making a choice. It’s as simple as defining your priorities, choosing your passion project, and saying no to everything else. Turning off all notifications is also highly recommend.

When you put focus into practice, by choosing your most important personal and professional goals, you design the life that you were meant to live.

3) Open Your Mind

“We have more possibilities available in each moment than we realize.” – Thich Nhat Hanh

The third measure of mindful leadership is curiosity. Curiosity is the ability to shift our perspective, combined with an attitude of non-judgment, in an effort to discover greater possibility.

The opposite of curiosity is judgement. Judgements are the rules and beliefs we have established about the world that are preventing us from moving to the next stage of mindful leadership. When we are judgemental, we close ourselves off from further growth.

Developing curiosity requires us to become aware of the number of positive vs negative thoughts that continuously move through our minds. The ideal ratio is 3 to 1, that is, three positive thoughts for every negative.   

When you put curiosity into practice, you intentionally put a stop (or at least minimize) the seemingly never-ending stream of self-criticism that is preventing you from walking the path of a mindful leader.

4) Speed of Trust

“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” – John Quincy Adams

The fourth measure of mindful leadership is trust. Trust is the foundation of your reputation and is required to establish meaningful relationships. When others view you as trustworthy, you come across as dependable, reliable and deserving of the trust that they have placed in you.

The opposite of trust is distrust. Distrust puts up barriers that impede communication and blocks influence. Very little can be accomplished when there is distrust between two parties. When you have trust, communication and influence are fast. When there is distrust, everything slows down.

To earn the trust of others, you need to take responsibility for building it. This is done by clarifying expectations and doing whatever it takes to meet them. When you fail to meet expectations, or if you make a mistake, you avoid blaming others, take 100% responsibly, and do whatever is necessary to make things right.

When dealing with strained relationships, you need to take the intuitive and being the first to re-connect. This is not an easy task as you will need to let go of the preconceived judgements and labels that you have placed on the people around you.

The most significant gift you can give another human being is to place your trust in them. This requires the mindful leader to take the first step and believe in people.

When you put trust into practice, you commit to noticing the greatness of others. You shine a light on their strengths, hold them to a higher standard, and provide unconditional support when they stumble. Think of someone that has placed their belief in you. Perhaps a teacher, friend, parent or mentor. Sit with that experience for a moment and appreciate the gift.

5) Raise Your Standards

“If you want to change your life you have to raise your standards.” – Tony Robbins

The fifth measure of mindful leadership is integrity. There are two related meanings of integrity the apply. The first is the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles, and the second is the state of being whole and undivided. Integrity means establishing a set of standards for us to follow AND being congruent in our behaviours when put to the test.

If we keep with our combined definition of integrity, The opposite would be a combination of dishonesty and incongruence. We would be dishonest to ourselves and others when we sacrifice our principles which would erode trust, AND there would be an internal disharmony or incongruence which would weaken our ability to lead and influence.

The cool thing is that following the LEARN2LEAD model, you are adopting a core set of values and principles. By regularly evaluating each of these measures you are raising your standards. I created a checklist to help you to do this and you can download a copy here:

Imagine what it would be like to achieve integrity across each of the 12 measures. You would have the confidence knowing that all of your actions and behaviour are coming from a place of congruence. This is the vision that I have for you as a mindful leader.

6) Boost Your Productivity

“Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

The sixth measure of mindful leadership is effectiveness. Being effective means successfully achieving your intended result as efficiently as possible.

The enemy of effectiveness is urgency. When we are reactive to the urgent, we have the illusion of being productive; however, we are likely ineffective with our use of time and resources.

The challenge of developing this skill is to overcome our addiction to the urgent. When we bring awareness into our busy, yet seemingly productive days, it’s not unusual to discover that a majority of our actions are in response to something that is not in alignment with our essential long-term objectives. Once we become aware of our urgency addiction, we can start to do something about it.

To shift our attention from the urgent to the important requires us to be more strategic in our approach to managing our limited time and resources. The secret is to build a trusted system.

A trusted system is a series of tactics that you apply to ensure you focus on first things first. An example would be to block off time in your calendar for your most important projects. Another might be to make a list of the top 3 actions each day and focus on completing them before you do anything else. There are many useful actions like this that you can use to build your trusted system. Choose one, implement it, and repeat.

7) Leverage Your Strengths

“Only one who devotes himself to a cause with his whole strength and soul can be a true master. For this reason, mastery demands all of a person.” – Albert Einstein

The seventh measure of mindful leadership is mastery. To achieve mastery means having comprehensive knowledge or skill in a particular subject or activity.

The opposite of mastery is mediocrity. When someone is mediocre, they have not invested the time to develop the unique ability to do something well. They have decided to cut corners, to look for the quick fix, and avoid putting in the necessary time and effort to achieve mastery.

The secret to achieving mastery is to choose an area of expertise that leverages your strengths. Strengths are the patterns of excellence that seem to come to us naturally. To become aware of them requires us to look outside ourselves and seek feedback via assessments and others.

When we play to our strengths, the work doesn’t seem like work. We gladly put in the time and effort necessary to develop our chosen discipline to the level of mastery. It also allows us to develop a deeper understanding of our chosen profession and hence add more value.

8) Be The Oil

“Rapport is the ultimate tool for producing results with other people. No matter what you want in your life, if you can develop rapport with the right people, you’ll be able to fill their needs, and they will be able to fill yours.” – Tony Robbins

The eighth measure of mindful leadership is connection. Connection is the measure of our natural ability to establish close and harmonious relationships. It’s about being aware of the patterns of rapport that enable us to understand each other’s feelings or ideas and communicate well.

Without connection, positive influence is all but impossible. We can resort to using our position or power; however, this is only good for the short term. The opposite of connection is when we are selfish or disconnected. When we close ourselves off from building meaningful rapport, we sever the relationship between our minds and hearts. Without connection, you stop caring about others.

Some believe that you need to disconnect from our feelings to be an effective leader. The sad truth is that many companies reward these leaders for their ruthless efficiency. I’ve met my fair share of heartless leaders, and while they might get the job done, they do more damage then it’s worth. Their actions create companies full of corporate zombies, not mindful leaders.

Organizations are like living machines. Within the machine, we can choose to be a cog or the oil. When we choose a cog, we focus on doing our job in spite of how our work is impacting others. This leads to the creation of silos and culture of win/lose.

When we choose to be the oil, we step into the role of a mindful leader, we put people first, going beyond the limited boundaries of our position, and take ownership for the impact of our behaviours. This enables us to create meaningful connections, to build bridges instead of silos, establish win/win agreements instead of win/lose, and to become a person of influence.

9) Make Shift Happen

“Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it.” – John C. Maxwell

The ninth measure of mindful leadership is resourcefulness. When we are resourceful, we can deal skillfully and promptly with new situations and overcome whatever challenges life throws at us.

The opposite of resourcefulness is resistance. Resistance happens when we identify with and believe our limiting thoughts. These limiting thoughts arise when we are in unfamiliar or uncomfortable situations. We either play small when we identify with the limiting belief OR, we turn pro by being aware of the limiting thought, and in its place, we adopt an attitude of resourcefulness.

The secret is to be aware when we are in the midst of resistance (aka an emotional hijack) and to intentionally shift our attitude toward a more resourceful state. I call this making shift happen and this is what being mindful in the moment is all about.

This easiest way to do this is to pause and take three slow and deep breaths. The act of breathing interrupts the pattern of the negative state and gives us the space to make shift happen, and adopt a more resourceful state.

10) Find Your Why

“If we want to feel an undying passion for our work, if we want to feel we are contributing to something bigger than ourselves, we all need to know our WHY.” – Simon Sinek

The tenth measure of mindful leadership is purpose. Your purpose consists of the central motivating aim of your life; it is the reason you get up in the morning, it is your why.

The opposite of purpose is uncertainty. When we disconnect from our purpose, we are uncertain of which path to take. Purpose brings clarity to our actions, a deep knowing that we are on the right path.

To discover your purpose requires us to answer four fundamental questions. First, what am I really good at? Second, what do I enjoy doing? Third, what can I get paid for? And fourth, how can I make the world a better place. Your why is found at the intersection of these four questions.

Your purpose will be unique to you and your situation. What’s more, your purpose can shift and evolve depending on what challenges life happens to throw at you. As a mindful leader, your purpose is to discover your purpose and to help others do the same.

11) Build Positive Rituals

“Our character is basically a composite of our habits. Because they are consistent, often unconscious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character.” – Stephen Covey

The eleventh measure of mindful leadership is consistency. When we are consistent, we are persistent and firm in our actions and behaviours, in pursuit of our most important goals, in spite of difficulty or opposition.

The opposite of consistency is inconsistency. When we are inconsistent in our actions and behaviours, we are in disharmony with our character. We have failed as a mindful leader to walk our talk.

To develop consistency requires that we build positive rituals, that repeated again and again, propel us to achieve our goals. These are the positive habits which are created one at a time until we have a habit stack that makes that achievement of our goals look easy.

Remember, it’s not a single habit that makes the difference. It’s the series of practices and disciplines that you build, focused on each of the 12 measures, that when stacked together, enable you to walk the path of a mindful leader.

12) Measure Your Progress

“I think it’s very important to have a feedback loop, where you’re constantly thinking about what you’ve done and how you could be doing it better.” – Elon Musk

The twelfth measure of mindful leadership is feedback. Feedback is information about your performance used as a basis for improvement. To gather information about our performance requires key measures. A great example of measures are the 12 Measures of Mindful Leadership that we’ve just reviewed.

The opposite of feedback is failure. We need to be very careful with how we internalize failure. When we view ourselves or our results as failures, we neglect to recognize that everything, including ourselves, is work in progress.

In mindfulness circles, this is called the nature of impermanence. Impermanence means that nothing lasts forever. Whatever setbacks we might encounter are temporary, and it’s essential that we learn from them, but know that they do not define us.

There’s a fantastic thing that happens in our brains when we choose to measure something. What we measure automatically improves. This happens in 3 simple steps. First, we set an intention to develop a specific a measure. Second, we notice how our day-to-day actions, behaviours and rituals move us toward our intention. Third, we make tiny adjustments based on the feedback we observe. When we set a firm intention to improve, a lot of this happens unconsciously.

To set yourself up for success, don’t try to change too much at once. Select a measure and become aware of the patterns. Make small changes in behaviour, build better habits and observe the results. Be open to feedback and repeat.

In Summary

Title

Measure

Opposite

Widen The Gap

Awareness

Autopilot

Choose Your Focus

Focus

Distracted

Open Your Mind

Curiosity

Judgment

Speed of Trust

Trust

Distrust

Raise Your Standards

Integrity

Incongruence

Boost Your Productivity

Effectiveness

Urgency

Leverage Your Strengths

Mastery

Mediocrity

Be The Oil

Connection

Disconnected

Make Shift Happen

Resourcefulness

Resistance

Find Your Why

Purpose

Uncertainty

Build Positive Rituals

Consistency

Inconsistency

Measure Your Progress

Feedback

Failure

You can download a checklist that I created to help you develop your leadership skills. It outlines a specific action that you can take to improve each of the 12 measures. You can download a copy here:

I’ve labelled this iteration of the 12 measures as version 2.0. The real version number is probably 8 or 9, but for this purpose version, 2.0 will do. As I walk the path of a mindful leader, I continue to have more profound insights into the subtle nuances of this practice. To help both us keep track of the evolving nature of this work I will use version numbers as I continue to make updates.

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